“Video games are a great analogy for life. You go through levels, get thrown off by obstacles, and face several enemies. The game will become harder and harder, but it’s okay because you become smarter, faster, and more skilled.” – pg. 4
“Not being able to control people and situations doesn’t make you powerless; it just means you have to exercise your power in a different way. If you can’t control people, then control your reaction to them. If you can’t control a situation, then prepare for it.” – pg. 4
“We’re so often fixated on getting people to behave in accordance with what we want that we forget to focus on ourselves.” – pg. 7
“It’s not about getting the role, it’s about doing the audition.” – pg. 24
“When it comes to getting work done and having the opportunity to learn lessons, don’t let your emotions rob you.” – pg. 31
“Ask questions that align with your priorities and ignore all other noise.” – pg. 35
“Stop going around in circles and instead take advantage of your valuable time and make some tough decisions. Step out of the complicated maze you’ve created and take a one-way street to Clarityville.” – pg. 37
“No mistake is too big or small to apologize for, and no ego should be too big to make that apology. The biggest mistake you can make is thinking that an apology doesn’t matter.” – pg. 42
“If you don’t love yourself, you’re probably not the happiest version of yourself, and thus you’re unable to love someone to the best of your ability.” – pg. 64
“I treat my waking hours like I’m making up for the time I’ve spent asleep. I want to do so much in a day that when my head hits the pillow at night, I’m exhausted and feel I’ve earned the right to catch some z’s.” – pg. 70
“But if you have a career or goal that consumes your entire day, you need to like it to succeed. Enjoying what you do is the only way you can commit so much time and energy to your work.” – pg. 70
“You’ll never truly know if you can accomplish something or be great at something if you don’t commit. […] You need to get down on one knee, propose to your decisions, and commit to them for a lifetime.” – pg. 85
“Temptations to slack off will always be there, and that will never change. What has to change is your ability to deal with temptation.” – pg. 90
“You can’t get what you want in life if you don’t know what you want.” – pg. 103
“Talking about something doesn’t make it true. And action is only meaningful if it’s consistent.” – pg. 121
“If you’re trying to set yourself apart, you need to know what has already been done.” – pg. 125
“The thing about the ladder is that no matter how high a rung you reach, there will always be people above you.” – pg. 133
“One of the best feelings in the world is when you know that luck didn’t play a role in your success. Doing work eliminates the need for luck.” – pg. 139
“Deadlines are always easier to follow when they’re public and you’re held accountable for them.” – pg. 144
“No one thing should make or break you.” – pg. 148
“In most negative situations in life, you can create a positive outcome if you just look hard enough.” – pg. 175
“You don’t feel entitled to success – you feel empowered to earn it.” – pg. 179
“There are 7 billion people on the planet. Thats 14 million socks to knock off.” – pg. 182
“The next time you have an idea, recognize that your idea is your baby and if you parent it well, it will grow up to be a wonderful event, product, or campaign. Your baby can change the world, but first you must make a promise to protect it.” – pg. 194
“We all have a carrot dangling above our heads. […] The best relationships are those that not only allow you to have your own unique carrot but also allow you to help your partner reach their carrot.” – pg. 237
“It’s on you to create great opportunities.” – pg. 248
“It’s important to know the difference between supporting people and giving them a free ride.” – pg. 278
“Support those who work hard.” – pg. 281
“Remember who you want to be.” – pg. 287
“You are a part of the human race, and humanity is the biggest and most important team you’ll ever be on.” – pg. 290
“Promoting what you love results in seeing more of what you love in the world.” – pg. 297
“When you really pay attention, there is so much to be grateful for.” – pg. 303
“We all have what it takes to be the best version of ourselves.” – pg. 315